We have come across an exciting product for those wanting to learn how to read female body language. The two authors Christopher Phillip & Jon Chandler have studied female body language for a while and teaches you how to meet and have success with women without any cheesy chatup lines.
- Do you get confused as to whether women are interested in you?
- Do you get all tongue-tied when chatting to attractive girls?
- Want to have more success communicating with women?
If any of these are you, then don’t despair as you are not alone. This new book could be just what you are looking for. Here is a tiny excerpt:
The process of attraction is very simple.
| The Look | She gives you the quick glance, followed up by a few short glances..waiting for you to notice. |
| The Smile | She shoots you a half smile and turns away. This is where most men give up because they think she’s not interested. (Hint: it’s actually the green light to come over…) |
| The Preen | She primps herself, shows certain body parts, tilts her head and sends out other signals showing she’s interested. This is your time to pay attention closely. |
| The Talk | You approach and the conversation begins…don’t mess this step up or else…Simply start with this… “Hi, XXXXXXXXXXXXX” |
| The Touch | She’ll look for a chance to initiate the touch…when she does…look for this sign: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX |
Here are just some of the things that you will learn with this:
- The most common ‘come on’ signs and how to decode them.
- How to tell if the girls is really interested in you, and it’s not from what she is saying.
- How to spot those subtle signals, that if miss, then you’ve missed your chance.
- How the distance you stand from them when talking to them makes a massive impact.
And so on…
Make sure that you check out their female body language book which is instantly downloadable, and come back to post your comments. I would love to hear your feedback.
Body language can give a lot away and this short video clip gives some good advice. Though it relates to speed-dating, the body language aspects apply to all situations.
The video talks about not giving negative body language, but I guess it should be ‘not too strong’ a negative body language. If someone doesn’t like you or the vibes are not right, you will get a sense of it. The video shows a few examples of negative body language that if you pick up will mean that it’s a no go.
Don’t get disheartened as any negative body language will just save you time. At least you know you are unlikely to get anywhere with the girl, just move on to greener pastures.
Communication is essential to maintaining healthy relationships. All human interactions involve communication and being able to read body language is key. As stated in an earlier post, over 50% of communication is through our body language. That’s a staggering portion and just illustrates how much we ‘give away’ through the way we move and through our posture.
Certainly, if you are a guy and you are looking to gain the interest of a female, then being aware of body language and being able to read the opposite sex is a very useful skill. And what’s more, it is a skill that can be learned.
Women are particular creatures and if they have no interest in you then you can try as much as you like but you won’t get anywhere. If you are able to understand even the basics of body language, then if there is a female interest, you can guage whether the interest is mutual.
Her body language will give out signs, whether she is aware of it or not. It’s your job to pick up on these signals, interpret them correctly and then if the signs are there, make your move or approach. Do this when the signals tell you otherwise, then you will get shot down in flames!
Be aware that some females are knowledgable of body language and will actually consciously give out signals on purpose. This is in part to tease us guys, some do it for fun (just because they can!) and some others do it more overtly in order to garner your attention. If you are one of those guys who need things spelled out to them, then you may well miss out on these signs.
Another bonus of understanding female body language is if you are actually in a relationship already. It will help you understand the other sex better. Ever heard of “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”? It’s quite a famous book about the differences between men and women and they way they communicate. If they understand how the opposite communicate, then you will have a much better and richer relationship. being able to read female body language can help you to communicate better.
So how do you learn how to read female body language? Luckily there are some great products online that takes you by the hand and explains it all. Click here for an example.
Why would you want to learn how to read body language? Well, there are many benefits. Human ability to communicate is what separates us from the animals, but what do we mean by communication? We generally mean the spoken word, but communication also means written communication and body language.
Did you know that the spoken word accounts for only about 7% of all human communication? Most people think it is the main component but it’s not. If it only accounts for 7%, then what about the other 93%? Well, how you say something, as in the tone of voice, the pitch, the volume and the cadence accounts for 38% of communication. That’s more than the words themselves.
Which means that the lions share of communication is expressed through physiology, in other words, body language! All the body movements whether conscious or subconscious conveys a message and signal to those around.
Simple body language can be read by you subconsciously, we always pickup cues from those we are engaging whether we are aware of it or not. If the other person is constantly moving and shifting, we get an unconscious ‘awareness’ that they are restless. It could also convey the sense of uneasiness.
When we are talking to someone, good eye contact conveys the message of trust, interest and engagement. It’s often said that we are less trusting of those who do not engage in much eye contact.
These are just two simple examples of how body language is involved in everyday communication, of which it is the most important. Being able to read body language consciously enables you to build great rapport with the other person. It gives you an advantage in being able to build a great relationship with the other person.
The advantages of this sort of skill can be readily seen in the fields of business and personal relationships. The great news is that reading body language it is a learned skill and can be done by anyone. Here is an online course that teaches you how to read body language effectively. Check it out and see for yourself.
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